No more time to be socially awkward – Not all of us can walk into a party and be the life of the party. I have that ability, so this one doesn’t fit for me. However, we all can be shy at times and socially awkward. You don’t have time for that any more, as it is only you and you need to move past it in order to meet new people. I mean, you moved to a new city all by yourself, why can’t you talk to someone new at a bar or a party?