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Senior Dating Options 101

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Just like real life dating, online dating may involve considering a number of candidates, until one catches your attention. An advantage of going through this process online is that you can consider potential dates by computer, in the convenience of your home. Modern senior dating sites make it possible to navigate the culture of online dating by simply clicking through profiles online. However, there are some things you should be aware of prior to signing up with a senior dating website. Before you start exploring your online dating options, use the information below as your guide to learn how to pick a senior dating site.

Do Some Research.

Whether you’re in your 50s, 60s or 70s, and are looking for a new relationship or just pleasant companionship, there are numerous options available through popular senior dating sites. However, choosing a dating site, reviewing hundreds of profiles, creating your own ideal profile, and responding to online messages can all together begin to feel a little overwhelming. To help make getting started easy and fun, and to help ensure that you have the best possible online dating experience, take the following steps before you sign up with a site and embark on reviewing dating profiles:

  • Take a little time to research the most recommended dating sites, including:
    • Sign-up process
    • Costs
    • Features
    • Their BBB status
    • Their user security systems
    • Their customer service policies
    • Any other relevant information
  • Read some online reviews.
  • Ask knowledgeable friends for input.
  • Contact dating site professionals for advice.

What Does a Dating Site Do?

A dating website is different than a dating agency. Agencies are matchmaking services, companies that produce events such as speed dating, socials, international matches, and so on. There are agencies that specialize in dating for single seniors, however these typically do not have an extent of reach comparable that of popular online senior dating sites. Top-ranked online dating sites may have millions of users, which provides you with a much larger number of mature prospective matches.

Choose the Best Site For Your Interests.

Before making a financial commitment to a dating website, make sure you understand what each site provides, and compare their offerings to what you are looking for in a dating site.

  • Some sites focus on expertly making matches for you.
  • Some offer sophisticated search tools.
  • Some boast of algorithms and other technologies that deliver matches based on compatibility.
  • Some specialize in matches for seniors.
  • Sites that require subscriptions typically provide better results and customer service than free dating websites.
  • For the most useful information to help choose dating sites for senior singles, check detailed consumer reviews.

Build Your Profile.

Your profile should offer people insights into your personality and lifestyle. It’s your opportunity to tell people who you are and what you want to accomplish in meeting people through the dating site. Just tell a few unique and interesting things about yourself. Since people online can’t experience your personality and special qualities in person:

  • Use language that expresses what you are like.
  • Use pictures of yourself that are flattering, but current and accurate.
  • Use tips provided by top senior dating sites, to help you improve your profile.
  • It’s essential to make sure your profile is as honest as possible, but don’t include sensitive information.

Connect by Chatting Online.

Meeting people through online dating sites starts by receiving or sending a private message. If you see a profile that you find interesting, you can send a message in effort to establish an online connection. Avoid using phrasing that is too brief or vague. Simply mention which aspect(s) of the person’s profile you find interesting, and say something about how that relates to your own experience(s).

REMEMBER: The majority of dating site users send and receive many messages over a period of time before finding someone they would like to meet in person. So, do not let yourself become discouraged if you do not succeed in meeting someone quickly.

Ask About Trial Periods for Dating Sites.

The highest quality dating sites are more likely to offer a free trial, to allow you to try out their systems before you make a financial commitment. During your trial period, you can test the site functions, create a personal profile, upload your photos, search other users’ profiles for those that interest you, and even send and receive messages to and from other site users.

See Sites for Dating Over Age 50, 60, 70.

Meeting someone compatible with your interests in dating, friendship, or relationship is often a matter of meeting multiple people. Still, to narrow the process, look for dating sites that offer:

  • More profiles of users in your specific age range than other sites have, vs. a site that just has a generally larger senior user base than others.
  • Exclusively senior profiles, so you will not need to go through multitudes of profiles of younger people who are not compatible for you.
  • Profiles of numerous people interested in dates, companionship, or marriage, as applicable to your interest in using the site.
  • A number of people whose profiles indicate the attributes you’re looking for in the person/people you would like to meet.

Look for User-Friendly Website Features.

Choose a site that features simplicity for its users. All websites (of any kind) should provide an intuitive user interface. It should be as easy as possible for users to find menus and options, to utilize functions, and to communicate with user support services representatives. And, it should take no more than a few minutes to join a site and create a user profile.

Be Very Selective.

There are some good online dating sites that have good reputations and that are very successful in providing information and connections that help many people meet others, date, and go on to enjoy new long-term relationships and marriages.

Be Aware of Online Dating Safety and Security.

We’ve saved this topic for last, though it must be every online dating site users’ first priority. Addressing concerns about meeting people on an online dating platform should be emphasized as the top priority for the site that you choose to sign up with.

  • Use only the most trusted sites.
  • Check sites’ rankings on independent consumer review charts.
  • Read detailed consumer reviews.
  • Compare user security systems provided by various dating site providers.
  • Make sure you clearly understand the process that the site you choose uses to review and verify profiles of its site users. Do they actually conduct manual reviews of every profile to ensure that all users are real people and are serious about using the site to meet people for potential dating?
  • There may be less risk in online dating for seniors using top ranked sites.
  • Ensure that the website you sign up with has a system for fraud detection.
  • Ask if the site has a 24/7 customer support service.
  • Check the Better Business Bureau file report on the dating service.


Choosing and using a dating site should be easy and fun, not difficult and stressful. Make sure that the site you choose has an excellent, dedicated team of professionals to support users and to make sure that you enjoy using the site. Read reviews, check consumer rankings, and use other resources mentioned here for evaluating sites. Just do the same extent of advance research that should be done before making any important decision. Then, you can be confident that you have maximized your liklihood of having a successful online dating experience.